???? Ode to condoms ????
So, yes, I introduce the thing in a little strange way, and I illustrated “all in color”. It's voluntary, I want it to be seen!
Why approach the subject? For three reasons, first of all because we are not all of the same generation, we do not all have the same libido, the same sexuality, the same culture or personal history, nor the same constraints. Then, because very often, we took Androcur, Lotéran and company, not only for a pathology, and even sometimes, "simply" because we were presented these drugs as an oral contraceptive, "like another". ???? Finally, because the subject, for the first reason cited above, is still taboo, according to ...
For those whose only concern (in the sense that you have a drug, Andro and Co, Diane35 or what do I know, just "for that"), is contraception , and "how to move forward", I recall an important point: ???? Any hormone (natural or synthetic) can make your meningioma grow, all. She feeds tumors ???? (I am “simplified”, huh). For the relay on other pathologies, this is not the purpose of this specific subject. ????
✅ Recall of fundamentals:
- There are all 56 sizes of different condoms (give yourself up to the dimensions indicated on the box) . If your husband, companion, sex friend is not used to, invite him to try several, and to train, before , if he was not used to putting it)! Putting a condom is not innate. The generations who knew the pre-AIDS era did not use it, I remind you, and not easy to get into it for those who have not considered it useful to practice it so far!
- The condom is effective at almost 100% , unless it is poorly placed, damaged or expired ...
- Men and women can be allergic to latex, but can turn to polyurethane condoms (a very resistant organic molecule)!
- Regarding textures, tastes, colors or “options” of the condom, again, remember to optimize the act, for more pleasure : extra-end, extra-lubricated, delaying, boosting pleasure, ribbed, etc.
- For various reasons, you may need a little help to obtain sufficient lubrication for your report to be pleasant and without discomfort. It can vary at different times in your life due to stress , drugs, health or even hormonal changes (vaginal dryness) , and the use of lubricant can be a very effective solution during these periods!
- “It decreases sensations”:
- “It reduces or even causes the erection”:
For your punctual partners, in addition to the risk of pregnancy, sorry to remind them, but in the rare cases of a condom accident, a pill of the next day, it is nothing, compared to a sexually transmitted disease ! And a partner who would refuse, thank you to Adios!
???? If this is your first time to both (at any age!) , This is an opportunity to go into a shared discovery, taking care of yourself. Buy a box and take the time to read the instructions.
You can even train yourself for preliminaries, to be more comfortable afterwards! If one of the two partners is more seasoned, it is an opportunity for him to initiate the other, gently and without pressure: everyone begins one day!
The “moment of putting a condom” can be exciting, funny, fun ... and becoming a sex toy in itself. A condom that protects you, prevents you from a pill, an IUD, or other, and participate in your pleasure? It's possible! ???? ???? ????
???? Finally, three things to conclude, according to “my” point of view:
➡️ After the mental load, another invisible burden weighing on women: sexual load. And it would be good for men to take care of certain things:
“ After the mental charge and the emotional load highlighted by the designer Emma, another invisible burden weighing on women is pointed out: the sexual charge ” (contraceptive, in particular). Read this short comic, very instructive!
Your speech, modest, frank, or indirect (or by intermediary: aunt, friend, etc.) must include / advocate the condom with each act , because it covers two risks, one can be "very annoying", and the other, with really more serious consequences, from a healthy point of view.
I know his preferences, I noticed “even better” than others, in terms of “sensations”.
It is a real moment of complicity, laughter, joy, and I think I would never get tired of this look, accompanied by this sentence: "Hmm, I think it's time that I put a condom". ????
You will understand, I advocate, 100%!What joy, too, to have found my darling libido ❤️, lost, a few years before him (and previous partners), because of Androcur ! ????
⚠️ I remind you that we have thematic subjects on the group, Addressing libido! ⚠️????I totally understand that this is not easy, for all, for various reasons. It is only a simple reflection, on the thing, which is mine. ☺️ ????
????Feel free to talk about it, if you wish. ???????? Finally, Others may have the experience of the female condom, it could be really nice to know your experience, in com, or even that you create a subject on the theme, if you felt! It would be more visible, by all! ????
???? ???? A little PS, which I add, because I want to ❤️ : is there an age to have a sexuality? No, sex is life! ???? ???? And it is not me who says it!
https://moisenior.aude.fr/article/la-sexualite-a-ne-une-limite-dans-le-temps
Enjoy, rediscover, discover !! The pills cut the libido by more than one of us, and some have put this on age, "maturity", menopause.
????❤️????????????❤️???????? Go know, there may still be so much to live and feel! ????❤️????????????❤️????????
And no, we do not have, we are not “equal”, in terms of libido, in the sense “just not the same”, it is “if we want it”, point! ????
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